Answer: No, not a huge house and we have 4 bedrooms, one bathroom.
We really don't think too much of it but it was a little bit ridiculous last Sunday as we were trying to get ready for church. Let me first say there are reasons I only take showers (NO BATHS).
- The pipe drips into the laundry room on the clean clothes only when the water is sitting in the tub for a bath. (Consequently everyone takes showers for the most part... unless special permission is given)
- With 10 kids who has time to take a bath!
- Contrary to what others might think, I do NOT like labor. I pretty much only take baths during labor, and so if I try to take a bath the whole labor and delivery process becomes first and foremost in my mind. Not exactly a "calgon take me away kind of moment.
- While laying in the bathtub another thing becomes glaringly apparent... there is some staining that can only be noticed at eye level while laying in the tub.
- What is really nice about taking a shower is that the running water drowns out the sounds that are going on in the rest of the house. The rule used to be "if there isn't a fire and you aren't bleeding (like need to go to the ER kind of bleeding) then don't bother me.. But as the family has grown the reality is there is just isn't enough time in the morning to get teeth brushed, showers done, hair combed etc. SO... THIS was my shower last Sunday:
(Note: there is a non see through fabric shower curtain for apparent reasons)
I here the door quietly open and peek out to see Ella. Well I better let her stay in because she can be disastrous if no one is watching her.
Me: "Who is it"
Me: "Me who?"
Child?: "Mitch, I need to brush my teeth"
Me: (sighing) "Come in but make it fast"
Mitch: "who is it"
Josh: "I need to brush my teeth"
Mitch: "I'm already in here"
Josh: "I don't care" pushes open door and comes in.
Amanda: "Liam needs to get a shower. I'll undress him and hand him in to you"
Me: SIGH again as Amanda enters the bathroom, and uses the toilet as a chair to sit and get the baby ready to come into the shower.
Anyone counting how many children are in this bathroom at this point? FIVE!
I hear the door open and shut and am assuming the bathroom now has one less child only to find one more walked in. Josiah doesn't want to miss any interesting conversation so he has joined us too.
ME: "there are SIX kids in the bathroom" Now yelling sarcastically, "Any other children out there that aren't in the bathroom?!?"
CALEB: (my dear obedient thoughtful yet very literal child) "Here I am mom" as he enters the bathroom.
I start half yelling and half laughing: "This is ridiculous....there are SEVEN kids in here! EVERYONE OUT!"
Mitch: "not fair, I was here first! well sort of"
Now I know some of you are wondering how big our bathroom is... thinking it must be one of those spacious luxurious master baths. Ready for this... it is 6'x8'. Thats it! I don't know how anyone managed to brush their teeth without it feeling like a football game.
There is a light at the end of the tunnel though. We have a new bathroom planned for the addition. In fact it is almost plumbed but we can't go forward until the inspector comes. Right now the new bathroom is holding all the kids clothing in baskets on a shelving system in hopes of having a bathroom, laundry room, changing room all together.
Oh joy of joys... a second bathroom... a quiet shower....could it be possible? Time will tell. I am silently wondering though if the second bathroom won't be finished until 1/2 the children have moved out of the house. LOL (ok.. David just kidding in case you happen to read this). And I know that in another 20 years I will probably miss episodes like this one.